Getting Started 33 comments


success-failureUnfortunately, today there are many pages that offer tons of money with almost no effort. The truth is that 99% of those offers are scams. They are just shamelessly trying to trick you, in order to take your money.

 

Of course, you can’t make thousands of dollars by playing online casino with Martingale betting system or by using “magical” binary options algorithm. But it is obvious that there are some people who actually making lots of money online!

 

So What Separates You From Successful Online Entrepreneurs?

Online business is no different from any other business and there is only one answer: the right mindset! Those people once were just like you… Just like everyone else who never achieved real success… But they knew that something isn’t right. They knew that their place is somewhere else because their thinking doesn’t fit into society’s standards.

 

Unfortunately, narrow-minded people often can’t understand things that are obvious for future entrepreneurs. That’s why they are often bullied at school. During their early days, these people learned to see opportunities when no one else can. They never let others affect their life. Later they turned their pain of being outcast into a passion for helping others.

 

Think Outside The Box

Most people are trapped in their routine and reality. They’re doing what everyone else is doing because it’s safe and feels comfortable. They sentenced themselves for life to be average. But if you reading this, it means that at least somewhere deep in your heart you know that you are special and deserve to be rewarded. If so then don’t let the “reality” kill your dreams.

 

Sometimes people say that you need to think outside the box. I say that there is no box! Everything that we see daily is the reflection of our mind. Everything that we create is the projection of our visions and dreams.

 

This “box” is where people feel safe, this is the regular life where everything is familiar. When you step outside of it, you will be alone and scared. Everyone else will try to pull you back into “normal” life. But you need to sacrifice your old life, for the life you’ve always dreamed of. Because no one has ever dreamed about regular life…

 

The Fear Of Failure

il_fullxfull.382198227_9sy1The first fear you will face in the very beginning is the fear of failure. “What if they are right?”, “What if my idea is actually stupid?”. These are questions that you will ask yourself when something goes wrong.

 

But remember that everything depends on you. You don’t need to invent something completely new. Sometimes just original presentation can be more than enough.

 

For example, Gary Dahl, the creator of “My Pet Rock” sold rocks as pets for $3.95 with 32-page pet training manual with tips and tricks on how to train your new pet to “sit”, “stay”, and “attack”. He earned $15 million within first six months!

 

The Fear Of Success

This may sound weird but it’s true. The main fear is the fear of responsibility. When you become successful everyone expects you to be a positive example for others. You probably won’t be sure if you manage to do this. You become important and influential, your decisions can affect many people. But think how many good things you can do with that influence! How many people you can help!

 

Second common fear is the society’s reaction. Many people will admire your results, others will be jealous and try to put you down. If you haven’t experienced this kind of attention before, this might be a little bit difficult and weird. But you will get used to it and eventually, it becomes enjoyable because you know that you deserve attention and you’re special.

 

You might also lose some friends. They might start to think that you are too different from them. But don’t worry about that. You will find new even better friends who also managed to escape the trap of regular life, who will encourage you and believe in you.

 

Online Business Opportunities

Today you can find thousands of real ways to earn money online. You just need to choose the ones that suit you the most. Don’t expect fast results. Of course, everything is possible but most of the time it takes the time to build a big business. In the beginning, you might think that this is not worth your time and effort but that’s not true!

 

If you will be consistent and won’t give up, eventually your effort will pay off and make your dreams reality. At first sight, it all might look very hard, maybe even impossible. But it’s very possible if you prepare your mind and prepare to be consistent.

 

Creating a business might take many years, it depends on how big are your goals, but if you start today, ten years from now you will thank yourself. The time will pass anyway, so make the most of it! One of the worst feelings in life is thinking of what you should have done but didn’t!

 

We Should Help Each Other!

I created this site to help and motivate you through your journey. I’m going to write about topics that I’m familiar with. My knowledge doesn’t come fast. I was often lost and confused, probably just like you. But I never stopped learning, dreaming and moving forward. Even tho the best ideas often come when you are alone, there is a huge difference between alone and lonely.

 

When you are alone you are free and can explore your mind, create brilliant ideas. When you feel lonely you more likely to feel empty inside. You shouldn’t feel lonely through your journey. It is much harder to be productive when lonely. That’s why it is important to find like-minded people. We should help and encourage each other. Feel free to comment and ask anything you want, hopefully, we will find the solution together.

 

Thank you for reading!

Excuse my bad grammar and punctuation. I’m working on that 🙂

Julius, the founder of mylonelywebsite.com

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33 thoughts on “Getting Started

  • Austin

    I found your website a couple months ago but you haven’t posted once. Did something happen? Your content is really informative and well written. Why did you stop?

  • Rachel

    Awesome website and awesome well-written articles! I wish you all the best going forward with your business and in life in general!

  • Mystery person

    Yeah the website is good but you need to turn it down with the promotions. Too many of them looks forced and unproffessional

  • Lolita

    I’m really in love with your website. It’s very intuitive and professional. I hope one day I will get my websites to a similar level of profesionalism amd popularity.

  • Oliver

    I’m in love with the minimalistic and yet captivating design of your site! Your articles are very informative and you seem like a very knowledgeable person. Good luck with your business!

  • Mika

    Congradulations on achieving success online! This blog really has a huge potential and the design is better than 99 percent of the mainstream blogs!

  • Percy

    I really like the design and the website looks very professional but it low-key feels like one big promotional campaign for Wealthy Affiliate.

  • Duke

    Yeah, there are so many scams. Nobody wants to work hard these days and I think hope is what makes people fall for scams over and over again. Scams are also becoming more and fancier. But wouldn’t it be funny if at least one of them was actually real? lol

    • Julius Post author

      Hello Duke,

      It is a very interesting thought. Actually, every time I see another scam that doesn’t look very cheap, I get similar thoughts as well. What if this one is actually real? There are a lot of crazy things in the world maybe somebody actually found a binary options algorithm that is over 90% accurate.

      The thing is that even though that’s technically not impossible, but extremely highly unlikely. It’s a very thought-provoking idea, and there is a chance that one day one of them will be real, but that doesn’t mean that you should waste your money hoping that it’s going to happen tomorrow.

      Sincerely Julius

  • Dakaelo

    I like your way of thinking. There are so many lazy people around but those who want will always find opportunities. There are a lot of ways to get money you just need to find the one that suits you.

  • person

    Very professional looking website. I love the images you have chosen as well but I’ve been visiting your website for a couple weeks now and you are not posting anymore. It’s a shame that such a website is not getting the popularity it deserved.

    • Julius Post author

      Hello,

      Pretty soon I will start posting again. At the moment I’m preoccupied with other things that require immediate attention.

      Also, thank you for taking the time to visit my website on several occasions. It’s very pleasant to know that even though I temporarily stopped posting, people still care and are paying attention to my work!

      If you want to support my work even more, please share it on social media, it helps me out a lot!

      Julius

  • The Gaming Panda

    I see your site is fairly new, but already you’ve managed to create some very good and useful content. I really like the looks of your site. You’re using nice images! Good job.

  • Methan

    I absolutely love your website! It’s true that there are a lot of scammers but you just need to use common sense to avoid them, so I’m not really worried. It’s absolutely true that your attitude is what can make you rich, but a lot of people are scared because the competition is pretty big and it often seems impossible. Especially if you are just a beginner.

    • Julius Post author

      Of course, competition is huge these days, but that is not as bad as you might think. Sure, it might be difficult for beginners to attract new clients because of the lack of skills and experience, but it also means that a lot of people know that the business is very rewarding, and of course, they want to get those sweet profits. This inevitably means that if you actually put enough effort and manage to become better than average, there is a very high chance of you getting more or less rich (depending on your efforts)!

  • Derek Marshall

    Hi there,

    I seriously loved this article. Thank you kindly for sharing it. You are ever so correct about the fear of not succeeding (failure) and the fear of actually succeeding. Both of which go a very long way in explaining as to why a lot of people have that odd, almost unexplainable fear of trying..fear of just giving it a go!

    In my humble opinion, it is not really the business success that people want but the freedom that come with that.

  • Nathan

    I agree that to become a successful entrepreneur you have to think outside the box – that you have to be outside the box. You also have to be outside the comfort zone. There is no room for growth inside the comfort zone. So you’ve got to get rid of your comfort zone.

    On fear of failure, I try to look at it like this: If you don’t give it a go at all then you are guaranteed to fail. At least if you give it a shot then you’ve got a fighting chance.

    • Julius Post author

      Thank you, Nathan! Yes, you have to at least try something, because if you don’t – you will always be just an ordinary person…